Defining Cancer

Events unfold. It changes us and over that we have no control. But what we can control is how it defines us, whether we evolve because of it or stagnate and let it claim us as a victim. It is then that we become a victim of circumstance or it is then that we allow what has happened to us become a catalyst for change. A better change.

That is how I am viewing my challenge and my struggle with Cancer. Some days I feel like a victim of fate and of circumstance and it is then that I reflect on exactly what victimises me so is it my attitude or my perception and when I change both that I am no longer a victim but I begin to evolve again. I begin to grow into a new me everyday!